🕯️ When Should I Use Implicit Direct Access in Session?

Implicit direct access is subtle. You’re still speaking to the part, but without breaking the flow or naming it outright. Instead of saying, “Can I talk to the anxious part?” you might simply say, “It makes sense that you’d want to prepare for every possibility.”

The words land as empathy, not intervention. The part feels seen without feeling spotlighted.

Use implicit direct access when:•

• The part is shy, skeptical, or easily overwhelmed by direct attention.•

• Naming it explicitly might make it retreat or perform.•

• The client is already somewhat Self-led and only needs gentle resonance.

  
  

It’s like speaking just under the surface — your tone, pacing, and language show respect. You’re not trying to move the system; you’re staying with it.

In IFS, every gesture carries energy. Explicit direct access feels like holding out your hand; implicit feels like sitting quietly beside. Both are acts of love.

When you sense a part’s edges soften, or the client naturally begins speaking from Self again, you know it’s worked. The part felt safe enough to stay.