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99 Al‑Dharr (ٱلْضَّارُّ) - The Harmer,

  • Dec 4, 2025
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Al-Dharr (ٱلْضَّارُّ)

The Harmer, The One Who Sends Harm, The One Who Lets Consequences Reach What Is Willed Bad

Pronounced: ad-DhARRRoot: ض-ر-ر (Ḍ-R-R) — to harm, to cause pain or damage, to afflict, to impose trial

Original Invocation (Arabic Calligraphy):ٱلْضَّارُّ



Sacred Reflection


Al-Dharr is the Name of Divine Trial, the One whose decrees sometimes pass through the world as burning winds, as grief, as loss, when the scales of justice, mercy, or purpose demand it.

He is not cruelty without wisdom.

He is the force that shakes trees whose roots were rotten,

hat makes the earth tremble so truth may surface,

that removes comfort so new life may be born.


In Sufi understanding, this Name is not a punishment from anger, but a passage through

trials meant to awaken.

Pain under Al-Dharr is not capricious. It is catalytic.

Weakness becomes humility.

Loss becomes longing for truth.

Darkness becomes inner vision.


He does not cause harm out of malice.

He causes what is necessary.

He distills what must perish

so what is eternal may remain.

He burns what clings to destruction

so life can be renewed inside the dust.


He does not forget mercy in the act of damage.

His harm is precise.

It does not scatter innocents.

It does not linger after its lesson.

It rises, then passes.

It cracks, then clears.


This Name exists so that comfort does not rot into complacency,

so that the soul does not tranquilize into forgetfulness,

so that the heart does not harden under ease,

so that longing does not die inside luxury.


Al-Dharr is the Sacred Wound.

Not to destroy you,

but to knead you.

Not to abandon,

but to call you back.

Not to shatter,

but to purify.



Parts Work Invitation


What part of you holds fear for pain, loss, suffering?


The one that says,

“If this breaks, I’ll never recover…”

“I can’t handle any more…”

“I can’t risk being hurt again…”


Let that part draw near to Al-Dharr.

Let it hear the deeper truth behind the tremor.


Not all that breaks is death.

Some breaks are healing in disguise.

Some loss is the letting go of what never served you.

Some pain is a teacher wearing the face of a destroyer.


Let this part soften its fear,

not by denying the hurt, but by trusting the healing behind it.

Let it surrender the need to avoid every wound.

Let it open to transformation.


Because under the Name Al-Dharr, even the hardest blows

are steps toward deeper soul-integrity.

Even when everything falls apart,

something sacred is being rebuilt.

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