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99 Al-Qābid
Al-Qābid, The Withholder, names contraction as wisdom rather than deprivation. In Sufi understanding, this withholding draws things inward at the right moment, creating pause, containment, and protection when expansion would cause harm. Through an Internal Family Systems lens, Al-Qābid reflects the Self’s capacity to contract the inner system when needed, slowing movement, limiting exposure, and creating safety so parts are not overwhelmed or forced beyond readiness.
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This free course explores the Enneagram as a system for understanding motivation rather than behavior. Thoughtfully informed by Internal Family Systems, it offers a grounded approach to the nine types without simplification or pressure to type.


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Japji Sahib Pauree 17
Japji Sahib Pauree 17 points toward the boundlessness of the Divine, naming countless forms, names, qualities, and expressions that can never be fully captured or contained. Guru Nanak emphasizes humility before the infinite, reminding the seeker that language and intellect fall short. Through an Internal Family Systems (IFS) lens, this pauree softens parts that crave certainty or mastery and invites Self-led presence with mystery rather than control.
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