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Chapter 35 – Tao Te Ching

  • Dec 21, 2025
  • 3 min read
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1. The Verse (Original)

Hold the great image,and all the world comes to you.

They come and suffer no harm,for in that peace,the music and food they seekcan be found.

Though passing travelers may pause,the Tao’s flavor is plain.

Like water,it has no taste.

Yet those who trust itfind themselves nourished.

Though it seems bland,it never fails.

2. The Essence — What Laozi Is Actually Saying

This chapter is about the quiet magnetism of the Tao.

Laozi says:When you hold the “great image” — the essence of the Tao —the world naturally gravitates toward you.

You don’t lure, persuade, or impress.You embody something steady, peaceful, trustworthy —and beings feel safe in your presence.

The Tao doesn’t dazzle.It doesn’t seduce.It doesn’t perform.

Its flavor is “plain,”not exciting,not dramatic,not stimulating.

Yet it satisfies in a way nothing else can.

It nourishes without sensory fireworks.It’s simple.It’s pure.It’s dependable.

Those who rest in itfind themselves at peacewithout knowing why.

Laozi is saying:The deepest nourishment in lifecomes from what is quiet,uncluttered,and unforced.

3. Modern Clarity — Slow, Rich, Beginner-Friendly Line-by-Line Commentary

“Hold the great image, and all the world comes to you.”

The “great image” is the Tao itself —the vast, formless essence that underlies everything.

To “hold” it meansto stay connected to simplicity,presence,and inner stillness.

When you live from this space,people feel it.They trust it.They come toward itwithout being pulled.

This is effortless magnetism.

“They come and suffer no harm, for in that peace, the music and food they seek can be found.”

“Music and food” symbolize what people believe will sustain them.Pleasure.Comfort.Belonging.Relief.

Laozi says:These things arise naturallyin the presence of someone anchored in the Tao.

Your steadiness becomes shelter.Your simplicity becomes nourishment.

No one is injured in the presence of true peace.It is a refuge.

“Though passing travelers may pause, the Tao’s flavor is plain.”

Most people seek stimulation —excitement, intensity, novelty.

The Tao doesn’t offer any of that.

It is plain.Simple.Unembellished.

Travelers may stop briefly,taste its simplicity,and move on looking for louder flavors.

But those who lingerdiscover something deeper.

“Like water, it has no taste.”

Water is the most essential substance in life —and also the least flashy.

We overlook it because it’s not dramatic.Yet we cannot survive without it.

The Tao is the same:subtle,quiet,vital.

“Yet those who trust it find themselves nourished.”

Only those willing to lean into simplicity —to rest in quietness —discover the Tao’s depth.

It nourishes at the root,not the surface.It satisfies the soul,not the senses.

“Though it seems bland, it never fails.”

The Tao doesn’t excite.It stabilizes.It doesn’t entertain.It sustains.

What is truly essentialis rarely dramatic.But it is always reliable.

4. IFS-Informed Understanding — The Tao Inside the Psyche

A. “Hold the great image” → Staying in Self-energy

To “hold the great image”is to stay connected to Self —to your calm, steady, compassionate center.

Self has a presencethat parts and people instinctively trust.

You don’t have to do anything flashy.You simply are —and that is enough.

B. “All the world comes to you” → Parts gravitate to Self’s steadiness

Protectors soften.Exiles emerge.Managers relax.

Not because you force them,but because they feel the safetyand clarityof Self-energy.

This is internal magnetism.

C. “Music and food” → Parts find nourishment in Self’s presence

Every part is seeking something:comfort, safety, validation, relief.

Self provides thiswithout agenda,without pressure,without intensity.

In this presence, parts“suffer no harm”and finally feel met.

D. “The Tao’s flavor is plain” → Self-energy isn’t dramatic

Parts often seek strong sensations:certainty, control, excitement, intensity.

Self is quiet.Plain.Simple.

But it is exactly the flavorthat heals.

It doesn’t dazzle —it nourishes.

E. “It never fails” → Self’s presence is the most reliable inner resource

Self-energy never disappears,though it can be obscured.

It is the one thing in the psychethat is stable,trustworthy,and always readyto welcome parts home.

This is the Tao within.

5. A Soft Invitation — Not Therapy, Just Curiosity

• What is the “great image” inside me — the quiet center I can hold?• Which parts of me crave stimulation instead of nourishment?• What happens when I allow simplicity to be enough?• Can I sense the “plainness” of Self-energy — gentle, steady, unforced?• Which inner parts feel safe when I rest in stillness?

6. Closing — The Tao and IFS Share the Same Gate

The Tao teachesthat the deepest truth is simple,quiet,and unadorned.

IFS teachesthat the deepest healing comes from Self —a presence without force,intensity,or performance.

Both paths point to a nourishmentthat is subtleyet life-giving.

The world may overlook simplicity,but the soul never does.

When you hold the great image within —steady, open, unassuming —everything in youand around youbegins to soften,return,and heal.

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