💞 Five Love Languages | Free Course
Updated: Oct 22

Free Course by Everything IFS Academy | Personality Series
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💞Welcome to the Free Five Love Languages Course for Everyday People
In 1992, after more than two decades of counseling couples as a pastor in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, Dr. Gary Chapman published a small book built on a pattern he kept seeing in his session notes. That book became one of the most widely read relationship books ever written, with tens of millions of copies in roughly fifty languages, and its central insight has quietly reshaped how people talk about love: we don't all give and receive love the same way, and love that isn't expressed in the language the other person understands often never arrives at all.
In this course, you'll learn all five languages, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch, and figure out which ones you speak natively and which ones you've been accidentally leaving out. You'll see why a heartfelt gift can land flat with one person and mean everything to another, why some people feel most loved when you simply do the dishes, and how many relationship frustrations are really just two people speaking past each other in different languages. It works for anyone who loves someone: partners, parents, kids, friends, the whole messy circle.
Course Outline
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The Basics
The Five Languages
5. Quality Time
Finding Your Primary
Living It
Bonus
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